How do i stay tuned!

If I had to rate my listening skills on a scale I would say its more on a 4, I rate myself this all cause I do listen and I have keep self non distracted with loud noises or just activity around me. When I do get distracted I do push the thoughts out of the mind so the person talking words can flow through my mind without my minds busy words or thinking inside. Mr. William Uri said "shifting spotlight" meaning of this is when person is talking make it all about them and their conversation, have both ears wide open and they have your full attention. Mr. William also said" listen to what's not being said" he is referring to what their saying with emotion and the facial, body expressions they are giving off to you. Listening is very important because how will you be able to communicate without listening? It hard a lot of important information will be missed. If your mom told you important information of how to do something and you go to do the task, how would you know what to do if you were not listening? Listening is the key factor of everyday use, how would you be able to pass information over to someone? It's hard for me to pretend having a big family we all listen to what one another has to say and give our full attention to who is talking. I don't know how people could pretend listening when its really rude where I come from.

What type of silent messages are you sending?

 Rolling out of bed try smiling getting ready for work whistling your favorite song to get you in a better mood, for this way your smiling walking tall, and ready for the day. You never know who your meeting could be your future partner in business, and or even love partner. Your Appearance is actually important from the time you walk out your door. its the biggest give away of your mood and sends the most important message without you knowing. posture, smiles, waves,  and even eye contact. Isn't it quiet annoying when your talking and there are no eye contact, and even body movement, oh boy don't forget the hands are fidgeting like they have somewhere else better to be. But lets say your eyes are not at the person talking because you have something in eye or your thinking of what they are saying. this example shows that to the ones talking we are receiving this as your not interested and do not care, even if you are listening and do care. Another great one out there is a lot of hands and arm fidgeting. If you are one of these its time to find different ways to relax deep breathes and turn on listening hat. all these movements are in receivers mind just rude, its sending a lot more messages than you think. more of bad than they are good. Coming all dressed and prepared for interview here's couple tips be in a mirror fold your hands and in front of your pants/ skirt don't fidget the fingers and just start talking to yourself and keep eye contact with yourself. Please everyone carry yourself with positives and keep on smiling employer's enjoy seeing everyone smiling and keeping engaged with fellow employee's. This all creates a positive outlook on you. When you dress it says a lot about a person, by dressing and keeping  positives of yourself and how you dress others see you as how your dress more than just your true you self. By dressing for success helps you practice in communicating and even with an amazing career opportunity that will magically appear, all cause how your dress, posture, and eye contact. That's even before open your mouth to some even more surprising intelligence. This employer you never thought that was right next to you, just told you come in to his office in the morning, and apply.